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Hi!
Iām Conor, 41M, 6ā1ā, blue eyes. Iām Irish, moved here 6 years ago (so I still have the accent) and would love to connect. Iām married 14 years, and weāre open, but I really miss the frisson and daily connection that comes from having an AP. The anticipation when your phone pings, hoping itās them, the inside jokes, the deep conversations, the sense of togetherness that you donāt get with casual ONS or FWB arrangements.
First of all, Iām funny- if you want quick-witted bantering puns and excellently crafted messages about my day and life- then Iām your man!
Iām kind, considerate and non-toxic (three sisters, so no Andrew Tate or weird red-pill Twitter shit) and feminist (because duh!)
Iāve had all the best therapy my ever changing health insurance allows, so I feel having my innate Irish cynicism tempered by Bay Area openness stemming from self-reflection has unlocked a super power where I no longer need to rely solely on self-deprecating humour ( <- note the spelling, Iām legit!) and can be my truest funniest funnest most confident self.
I LOVE making cocktails and trying fancy cocktail bars. I LOVE cooking and trying fancy restaurants. I LOVE baking and searching for the perfect patisserie. I also LOVE when someone shows me their passions and my best characteristic is āgetting on boardā so whatever you suggest Iām into it. (My bdsmtest.org results say 100% switch soā¦ that doesnāt just apply to the bedroom!)
Thatās probably enough, but excited to chat with anyone this resonates with. ENM/Poly & Bay Area residents to the front please.
TL;DR. I have a wife, but I want a girlfriend.
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