married with kids new to the experience and hoping to find someone also new to this with as much to lose as me. not looking for someone who has done this before or has multiple partners. i'm looking for an older man, who understands me and is looking for less deep of a connection and more fun, i miss the thrill, and the sneaking around.

professional job and an amazing family, two things i don't want to destroy so discretion is vital. i really cannot lose everything

am i nervous? yes, very. this is all so scary to me, but im trying my best.

looking for someone caucasion in the usa, someone with the soft kinda look, body type doesn't matter. by soft look i mean less scruffy, "rockstar" is not my type of tea, someone well kept and respectful.

i dont like telegram, after my attempt at registering and the little heart attack it caused me i will be steering away from that and any new social media. if you want to communicate with me take note now i only use snapchat, have used it for many years so easiest option in my head, is a dealbreaker and if this doesn't suit you simply just don't message me -

saving both of us time, i am slim, brunette with light eyes, i work out often, im open to exchange a picture initially and would actually prefer this as id rather establish a physical connection prior to talking rather than wait then decide there is no attraction later on.

let me know your age situation and what you're looking for instead of long meaningless paragraphs that are generic and sent to everyone .