Alright. Here we go again. I've made a few connections, had some fun conversations with some lovely people, have been both the rejector and the rejected. I'm still patiently putting myself out there hoping to find a match.

I'm in an LTR. I love my partner and am dedicated to her. Our relationship is great in many ways, but I have unmet needs like so many of us here. I'm also honest enough to admit that neglect or no, there is simply a greedy, amorous little devil in me that craves a forbidden romance. Human existence is too mysterious and transitory not to pursue the things we desire, no matter the taboos our society has conditioned us to follow as if they were natural law. I want to connect with a woman in a similar situation who can be just as honest with herself about the inherent selfishness and contradictions in what we are doing here.

I am looking for someone in the San Diego area for a good old fashioned irl affair. Of course, we need to spend some time chatting and determining if there is an initial connection and attraction, but ideally we'll arrange a coffee date or something similar where we can test our chemistry in the crucible of live, face to face interaction.

But enough of the serious stuff. I'm a fun, funny, intelligent, sensitive human being with a dark, dorky, self-deprecating sense of humor. Let's roast each other mercilessly in between unbridled expressions of flirty affection. I can dish out and take playful jabs with the best of them, while never making you question the sincere, compassionate, and affectionate human I am at my core. I'm hoping to match with a similarly sensitive soul buffered by a thick coat of sarcasm and irony. Intellect, wit, empathy, and self-awareness to me are all intertwined, so to truly possess any of these is to possess them all.

Physical attraction is obviously important. I'm 5'11", dark blonde hair, blue eyes, and keep myself in above average shape by hitting the gym and (mostly) eating healthy. I'm confident in my looks, but I know that ultimately attraction is subjective. I don't have a particular "type" and my only expectation of a potential match physically is that you take care of yourself similarly.

Looking for ages ~35-45

If you read all that and feel drawn in by any of it, please feel free to dm me!