Ok this isn't the usual post around here. This will be 95% daily conversation and bonding not hooking up or meetups. I'm looking for a slow slow burn. Slower than a pot roast on Venus.

If you're busy with a career, kids or engaged with various endeavours(pickleball, painting, underground fighting, etc) then this might be for you.

You've had affairs before but it hasn't come easy. You've experienced both sides of rejection but that's ok because you're confident. You have so much love to give yet you refuse to settle. That's me.

So let's chat daily and allow things to happen naturally. I have a dense schedule so I won't be available 24/7 but I do check in often, most weekends and early mornings (not a night owl). You won't be left confused or left on read for days. Absurd that I have to even mention this as we're supposed to be adults but I've walked these streets before.

Looking for someone kind, assured, emotionally intelligent, expressive and disease free. Prefer slim, toned, athletic or with voluptuous curves. All races and flavors welcome!

I'm latin/white mixed, tall with salt and pepper hair, clean shaven/Don Johnson scruff, broad shouldered and athletic/muscular with a narrow waist. I run and lift five days a week so I can eat Cocoa Puffs for seven!

We'll trade pictures soon to see if we're a match. If you're a poor communicator, conflicted about this, still not over your ex, neglectful of your mental health, volatile or into the occult or BDSM, choking etc your prince is in another castle. Or dungeon?

Again, despite this being local, we'll have to plan our meetings ahead. If you prefer regular meetups or any degree of spontaneity, I'm not your guy. Telegram or Signal preferred.

I love being a dad, my dog, food, anything chocolate, pan pizza, passionate sex, the evening sky full of stars, petrichor, fitness, WWE, retro games, shooting at the range and learning Mandarin. Also Christian and conservative.

Oh and I also have an eclectic taste in music, film, literature and the arts so for sure our tastes will match somewhere.

Also please be willing to make plans to get away on a trip together once or twice a year. The anticipation alone is worth it. And to protect one another, we'll both get tested before we do anything.

Ready when you are.