Since any sort of connection that I'm looking to have is built on trust, I'm going to go ahead and just put it all out there from the beginning. That way, when/if you read this, you'll come away knowing exactly what I'm looking for and where I'm coming from.

I've been married for almost two years, but we've been together for nearly eight. We have a good emotional relationship, though our physical intimacy has grown more than a little stale. That being said, I have no interest in changing my situation or yours.

Before this realtionship, I struggled a lot with self-esteem and social anxiety issues which led to dates and hook ups being few and far between. I always felt like I held myself back from experiencing new people and new things, and I was never able to really enjoy all that being physical with someone could offer.

Over the last few years I've really done a lot to improve my confidence and be less self conscious, and I feel like I want to take this and try and find new experiences and people to have them with, which is where you come in! Hopefully.

What I'm looking for is something that is equal parts emotional and physical. Given my marital situation, even a short term fling will need a certain foundation of trust (and no, the irony is not lost on me). So to achieve that, I do what to get to know you as a person, but with the goal of becoming more intimate.

If you live in the Seattle area, and we have a strong trust and attraction, I'm open to the potential of meeting in person.

I'm naturally a fairly introverted person, which is why I sometimes struggle to meet new people out in the real world and have found myself here, where it feels easier to connect and share myself at the beginning.

I'm an open book and will really talk to you and answers questions about anything and everything you might want to know about me.

If you want a generalized idea about what I look like, I'm about 5'11", on the slender side of an average build (just starting my gym journey), and moderately tattooed. Happy to share pics early on if you want to make sure there is mutual attraction.

If any of this has piqued your interest, please reach out to me and let's see what happens.