I’m 31, living in the majestic Pacific Northwest, though I don’t see geography as a barrier. While it’s easier if you’re in the PNW, it’s not a necessity. I’m well-educated, working professionally in the tech industry. I’m someone who values a good work-life balance and knows when to step back and enjoy life’s simple pleasures.

I find myself in a “dead bedroom” situation, staying in it primarily for our daughter’s sake. It’s a relationship where my efforts often seem to fall short, despite my best intentions. While I know I have my faults. I also know I have more to offer and believe it’s about finding the right connection.

I’m seeking meaningful conversations—ones that roam freely across topics without judgment, aiming to deepen understanding. I have a broad range of knowledge and enjoy discussing almost anything, hearing people’s stories and learning what makes them passionate is a true passion of mine. We only get one spin on this ride, and I want to learn as much as possible during mine.

I’m looking for someone who inspires me to grow, someone who finds joy in the little moments, like exchanging simple greetings that hold deeper meaning. Someone to make me smile like a school kid at my phone when they message. A relationship built on mutual respect and shared curiosity about the world.

I’m excited to explore new places, experiences, and layers of intimacy, from the familiar to the adventurous. As we get to know each other, I’m open to learning and evolving together. I definitely have a curiosity (and experience) in kink, and am an open and safe individual to help explore those wants/needs.

I believe I have much to offer and am seeking someone who shares the desire to explore life and its many facets. If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Let’s see where our conversation takes us!