Come on, I know you started immediately signing when you saw this headline. I think these lyrics describe perfectly what I’m looking for “anything that feels this good well, it must be illegal.”’

A little about me….

Dad of one, baseball fan (also coach) music lover, snowboarding is fun, dirtbikes are fun, and coffee is needed to survive.

What brings me here…

The best way to describe home life is simple. We’re roommates. No intimacy, dead bedroom, and overall missing that connection that should be there in a marriage.

What I’m looking for.

A connection first and foremost. I’m a big believer in establishing an emotional connection , and learning about someone. Too many people want quick, easy, and I’m not about that. I want to learn about things you like, dislike, home life, work life and all the above. Not looking to pour gas , light a match on your marriage then run away. We can though change our situations in the sense we can bring happiness to each other. A parent would also be cool. Just for the fact we get each other’s schedule and can talk about the Bluey movie coming out in 2026. I’m in So Cal (Inland Empire) so would prefer someone in that general area. Phone calls, and video chats are definitely something needed as well. I mean how can you get to know someone with just texts? I work from home so availability is open. I don’t disappear after 5 and at the very least can always text. Last thing and this is a biggie. I’m currently in a dead bedroom and would prefer someone who also is. If you’re having regular sex I assure you we won’t have anything in common.

Physically….

I’m 5’9 , brown hair, brown eyes, average build (holiday weight is a thing) whitexican, with one killer dimple! I’m not looking for something specific look wise. I will say you will get my attention with an awesome personality, and the ability to carry on a conversation.

Alright, I’m rambling so I’ll just stop now. Hope to hear from you!