Tired of the dead bedroom situation, looking to make a change in this new year and find a long(er) term AP. 

Looking for someone to have an emotional and physical connection with in a longer term relationship.

Married with kids, and not likely looking to change my situation anytime soon (although this could be reconsidered with a right partner). I'm tired of the DB and would love to feel wanted and loved again. This would not be my first relationship of this sort, but it is not like I have done this thousand times either. Would be best if you had some experience with this too, although not required as long as you are sure you want this.  Would be best if you were in northern or central Jersey, and are in a similar situation to mine.  Age around my age (38 to 54) would probably work best. Please have regular availability to chat and be open to meet when schedules allow, but at least monthly. Plus, if you are open minded/open to new experiences or trying new things, redhead, bbw/curvy, and/or have some tatts.
I am 46, y/o male from northern New Jersey. blondish brown hair, grey eyes, 5ft9in, about 200lbs, so not exactly a model but fairly decent looking for my age,working out regularly. smart, educated, clean cut, career oriented. I am not everyone's type, but I have been called handsome and easy on the eyes. Younger looking than my age. I love to read books, listen to all sorts of music, learn about history, and spend time outdoors.  Discreet, respectful, clean/hygienic, safe, sane. STD free. Overall,  I have a lot to offer to the right person. 

Will share pics after initial introduction if asked.

Please include the nearest lake near you, so I know you are real, from Jersey, and have read my post.

If interested, message me. I will respond to all serious responses.

Thanks for reading!