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Currently wanting to change the pace of what my marriage has been doing. Which is beating me upside the head. My wife has had multiple APs, I was furious. After calming down I offered her;
Clean divorce - she gets to keep everything, and I keep my mouth shut about her indiscretion.
Open marriage - she's free to have boy toys with no problems from me.
Stay together exclusively.
If you guessed anything but three, you're probably just as floored as me. That has left me wondering are affairs really that fun? Limerance? Butterflies from the excitement? Nervous wreck? I have no Idea, since I have never tried it.
About me; I've been described as a "basement dwelling thrist trap." (Had to urban dictionary it.) By the wife. I'm 6'1" and 220lbs (sort of dad bod.) Love all forms of music, all cusines, movies, daily life, and such. I do not watch television or the majority of sports.
I work (blue collar job) and spend time with my kids during my downtime. Adding someone else does not mean that I will be able to message daily and shower you with praise 24/7. I'm looking to accept and give supplementary pieces of myself. I'm would definitely enjoy talking with someone who's in a similar situation with the same priorities.
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