I want to get to know you, and I want you to want to get to know me. I want you to see my effort and match it, and tell me when and where I may be coming up short, as I will tell you. I hope you’re wanting the same.

I’m a 23 year old married woman living in Oklahoma with a passion for diy craft projects and reading. I have interests in fitness (having recently gotten a gym membership), animal crossing new horizons, anime, movies, nature (camping, hiking, biking.. all the outdoor “-ings”), music, and true crime documentaries/podcasts.

What I want (other than the things i’ve already demanded from you) in bullet points since everyone loves those:

• Attention, please. I wouldn’t be here if I got any in my relationship so if you’re the busiest person on earth or have to hide in a closet in order to send a text, please don’t reach out.
• Daily communication. We don’t have to have full length conversations every single day but I do want to hear from you throughout the day. Tell me how your day is going or what you’d rather be doing if you’re not doing something enjoyable, or send a picture.
• Exclusivity and in person meet ups. Preferably you’ll live close by or travel to Oklahoma often, i’m not looking for a one night stand or someone that’s seeing multiple women (STD’s are a thing, and I don’t want any).
• HWP, you don’t have to love the gym but you do have to take care of yourself.

What I don’t want:

• All of your time. I’m aware that we’re both (preferably) married and we can’t sit on our phones 24/7, just please don’t disappear for 15 hours without telling me why. Your wife was up your ass and you couldn’t talk? You got busy then ran a bunch of errands? Perfectly fine, but say that don’t just leave me hanging. Communication is key!
• Anyone under 28 or above 50.
• Anyone that smokes or has improper hygiene.
• To send nudes before we meet. I will not send you any naked pictures before we meet in person, if that’s a deal breaker for you please don’t reach out. Lots of free porn online!

Attraction is important so I am willing to exchange pictures early on, I know discretion is necessary so I don’t mind leaving faces out until we’re comfortable with each other. I’m brown skinned, with brown hair, brown eyes, 2 nostril piercings and a septum piercing. I’m 5’0, 115lbs, average body type and have 10 tattoos. If you read my long list of requirements and aren’t totally put off i’d love to hear from you! Please include your age and location in your initial message, and tell me what you like to do for fun.