Staring down another calendar year, I’m realizing that I want to enjoy, and so much more I have to give. I want 2025 to be the year where something amazing happens, despite… *motions vaguely at everything*

Some numbers up front: 845 area code. 6’3” height, 260 weight, married. I’m your average big bearded dude who loves telling stories and laughing too loud. Contractually, there’s at least one of us in every town. I’m big into photography, nerdy electronic stuff, and all aspects of music. If we connect, I expect there will be a fair amount of playlist-swapping in our future.

What I’m after is a connection/FWB situation to bring some passion, excitement, and creativity into the mix. I want to be each others distractions during the day, a spicy thought at night, planning for the next hotel room rendezvous all the while. We’ve got our obligations and our priorities, but there’s nothing in the rulebook that says you can’t have amazing experiences in between them all. 

I have a weakness for shorter (to me, 5’5” is shorter) women. Throw in some curves, red hair, and a sweet voice and I’ll melt right into the floor. Non-smoking is a HUGE plus. I also hope you have lots of hobbies so we can geek out back and forth. Just from a compatibility standpoint, it’d be great if we’re in similar positions; Happy but just looking for something in addition. Not replacing the ice cream, just putting some sprinkles on top. My job and hobbies give me plenty of flexibility and cover, and discretion and mutual respect is very important to me. Hopefully you feel the same. 

My friends would never guess I’m on here, but I think that’s part of the appeal. I kind of stumbled my way into an affair in 2023 and it showed me how fun life can be with something on the side. I’m new to the reddit angle, not looking to become a serial R4R writer, I truly am looking for the right connection. Let’s reach out.