Yes, sexy time is of course a part of this, but everything is so much better when it's with someone you have a connection with, right?

About me: I'm 43, married, and in a dead bedroom situation. I do have younglings that are my world, but it's not a requirement that you do too. Looks-wise, I am 5'8", Hispanic, have a full head of black hair, brown eyes, and regularly work out, so I am HWP as well (I am happy to share pics early as well).

I'm a jack of all trades personality-wise, but in summary, I would consider myself a self-deprecating yet emotionally intelligent goofball and pop culture guru. I am educated, professionally employed, and have traveled internationally a bit for work, so there is more to me than Reddit memes and movie quotes. For hobbies and fun, I like movies, TV shows (fantasy and sci-fi), and chatting with friends when I'm able to be freed from my fatherly duties. I would like to point out that if you do not think Die Hard is a Christmas movie, we may have a problem getting along.

So what am I looking for?

You!

Yes, attraction matters, but it's about so much more than that. Ideally, you're over 30, HWP/active, and love to smile. I'm looking for someone who makes me laugh and that hopefully laughs at my stupid jokes and groans when I tell them the worst puns. I'd love someone who enjoys telling me what they've got going on in life, things that make them happy, and random things that interest them. A fellow lover of pop culture, 80s/90s movies, and/or random facts is most definitely appreciated here but not mandatory.

It goes without saying, but I want to be your happy little secret and vice versa. Your home life will always come first, and I will never try to change that; however, I'm in this for the long haul and am not afraid to catch feelings.

We can take things at a pace that works for the both of us. With me, you're getting discretion (yup, good OPSEC), dependable attention, and a good listener.

I love conversation starters, so tell me, what is a minor pet peeve of yours, and what's been your favorite place to travel to?

Can't wait to meet you.