I’m an easy going middle aged married man hard to impress but when I'm impressed, I'm sure as hell going to make sure you will be also.

Reddit is reddit right! Hundreds of people looking for something outside their home and day to day life. So I hope this is seen by at least someone genuine.

I've been here in the past, but need to be patient. So let’s give this another go shall we?

Essentially any male posts (and let's be honest, there's plenty) get little or no responses and for those that are replied to they tend to ghost, too far, not actually looking or simply no connection.

So I’m going to be as specific as possible, hoping to save each of us some time and hopefully it will reach the right match.

I'm looking for a woman(obviously) 25-45 for a long term OA with an attractive (at least to me), petite/average body, fairly fit woman, preferably in Ireland/UK or Europe. But not saying those areas are a deal breaker, who knows!

Maybe your in a Poly/ENM/open relationship. Or just not happy in your life and want that connection with someone in the same boat.

I'd love the whole package: wit, beauty, charm,humor, romance, and attention… but for it flow naturally, haha well as naturally as online relationship can. But I'd definitely like to take it to a different chat app and not exclusively reddit.

If this person is a Mum, I'd completely understand the demands of a parental life. As I know, it’s a delicate balance. I do have kids, but they are older and in college.

This is about that missing spark in our real lives, attraction is very important to me(excuse me being shallow) so I’d like to get photos exchanged very early on, like immediately. Verification is a must. So If you’re into or pretending to be someone else and not been honest, then please, you know where to go!

I want the “girlfriend” experience I guess, and if you just want to sext all day with pics, look for someone else. I'm not adverse to it at all, but that takes a time frame that's convenient for us both. But, let's be honest, if the mood takes us at a certain time, why not!

Lastly, if you are going to send me a message, please do send me more than a one liner. If you’re not going to put in the effort, neither am I.

This is it for now. Let’s make this worth it.