Hi there 👋🏾 Let me preface this by saying: I'm currently married & have no intention of changing that. My child currently lives in a happy home & that's all that matters to me. However, I'm currently unfulfilled in my marriage & seeking out more.

A little about me:

• I'm 30
• 5'3
• curly, black hair
• brown eyes
• tattooed
• I wear glasses
• a mix of a curvy mom bod & a woman who loves the gym
• lover of museums/art, music, food, traveling, & anime (I know, I know. Try not to judge lol)

What I'm looking for:

• You know when the conversation is so good that you lose track of time & before you realize it, it's time for you to go but the last thing you want is for the conversation to end? THIS This is exactly what I'm looking for. That genuine connection where you can't get enough of each other. Just so eager to soak up your time/conversations together, no matter how lighthearted or serious the topic may be.

• It almost feels a little silly to type out on a subreddit for affairs, but l'd like for it to almost feel like we're dating. Not just instantly jumping into exchanging nudes & sexting, but seeing what's there. Building that desire until we both can't wait a second longer to explore it even further on a physical level.

• Ideally, this would build from exchanging messages & building comfort, to meeting & seeing if the connection translates in person as well, into more of a longterm arrangement & not just a one night stand.

• Looks wise, to be honest, I don't have a strict physical "type". I've dated a wide spectrum of men. I do notice that I have a soft spot for taller men, beards/facial hair, & someone who enjoys the gym/ being active however.

• Age wise, mid 20s to late 30s

• Location wise, while someone local to Illinois would be ideal I am open to long distance for the right match. I often travel & spend time in NYC, as well.

However, one immediate indicator that this will not work is if you align with anything that connects to the MAGA realm 🙃

If I've caught your eye & this feels like a good fit, please DM me to introduce yourself & tell me the current song you have on repeat or the last really good meal you had 💕