San Diego local, but open to all of SoCal. Oceanside, Vista, Temecula, Murrieta, Los Angeles, you name it, I'm happy to travel. Traveling isn't an issue for me to meet someone I can potentially have good vibes with! Especially if we're thinking in the long run of things for those of us seeking something ongoing and developmental; making the difficulty we can face in searching for a decent partner feeling like it's paying off.

I'm seeking someone I can get involved with mentally and physically. Someone I could call my friend and (secret) lover. I want us to feel the exhilaration of having someone in our lives that makes us smile, laugh, and just gives us good feelings knowing they are a part of our experience in this short life. Someone to connect with on topics and enjoy the occasional text, Snap, Telegram, etc. that make us smile. Consider it like dating someone new, yet nothing is changing in our personal lives, as we both have clear respect for our personal space. I mentioned mentally and physically- but not emotionally. Emotional connections, to me, are something that sort of just spur out of nowhere. Either we enjoy our company together as part time lovers and friends, or it grows and we want to care more about each other while still respecting our need for our existing partners and life for our own reasons.

And, just as equal, I'd love to find someone interested in enhancing their intimate life. I'm a giver and just as much a taker in that matter, and I happen to enjoy the approach of both pleasing and communicating interests. This is something best built up as needed, and not the sole reason I'm here. I enjoy excitement of creating that rush of want, that anxiousness, excitement, those little desires. I am not here to rush into anything on this, though if our mood allows it that's a difference story. In regards to my preferences on this topic, I'll say I'm an open book and am pretty explorative but accepting of others' needs. I like to joke and say "it's the Scorpio in me", for anyone into astrology/zodiac, though definitely not a requirement to be.

Personality and appearance- well, I'm a 39 year old, happy to entertain and make us laugh, smile, and just have a good time in our lives. I try to find ways to break the ice, considering I'm a bit introverted at first before being happy to have an ongoing conversation. I stand at 5'9, proportionally average height and weight (165), am somewhat of a runner (6-18 miles a week), and also happen to know Spanish if you like multiple languages. If you see my post, I'm here, let's talk! I'll be happy to exchange pictures with you as well.

Messages or chats are both open, happy to entertain your curiosity as well.