You've opened the thread so there's no harm in giving it a read right?

I’m a married dad and have no interest in changing that for me or for you. It would be nice if you were in the same/similar situation so we both understand the dynamic but it’s not necessarily a requirement. I am happy to share pics early to see how we each feel.

It's important to acknowledge that attraction plays a significant role in this. I hope you feel comfortable doing the same. If you're a woman with a lively personality, your appeal certainly increases. Age isn't a primary concern for me, as long as you're over 18. I'm more than happy to share more details or exchange pictures in a chat!

Attraction goes beyond just appearances. Sure, looks matter, but if we can’t connect intellectually or spark each other’s interest, it won’t last—and I really want it to. So let’s ensure our conversations are just as engaging! And please, make me laugh—whether it’s dad jokes, cheeky humor, or anything in between. I’m all for it! In fact, feel free to lead with your best cringe-worthy joke!

I want to be eagerly awaiting your messages. If we’re going to have a secret connection, I want that thrill along with a little bit of excitement. I want to feel enchanted by you and you by me.

So seriously—let’s chat about whatever’s on your mind! I’m a technology lover, I enjoy cooking, appreciate silly jokes, adore a good cocktail, and love making you feel special. I'm totally game for turning the conversation a bit spicy if that’s your vibe (I have some adult topics to share!), but let’s keep it lively and interesting.

So go ahead—share your best joke, introduce me to your dog, or tell me about your favorite foods. Got a secret chocolate chip cookie recipe or your preferred steak cut? I’m all ears!

Looking forward to connecting with you!