We all have different reasons for being here. I won't bore you with any of that but if you message me I'm an open book so feel free to ask. I'm looking to be someone's safe haven so to speak. Somebody that can be trusted and when we get together it's just a flurry of happiness and passion. I'm not looking to ruin anyone's life or change anyone's situation. This is my first time doing this and I've thought about it for a long time. Sometimes you don't have any good choices but a decision still needs to be made. I can't be without love and affection any longer. If this makes me a bad person then so be it I'm at peace with it. I'm looking for a woman in a similar situation. Somebody I can learn to trust and do this with. I'm of course 100% disease free. I also don't do any drugs of any kind or really drink for that matter. I'm pretty laid back and friendly. I get along with most everyone and have a great sense of humor. I love the outdoors and all that goes with it. Also love a good coffee, a good book and a comfy spot to sit. As far as looks I'm 5'10", green eyes, brown hair and more athletic. I'm open on age/race/bodystyle. Yes looks are important especially for what we are doing... but if you have wit and a good sense of humor that'll go a long long way with me. I work a hybrid job so sometimes from home and sometimes in office. I semi regularly travel from Detroit to the tip of the thumb so if you are in a reasonable distance we can make it work. In the bedroom I'm more dominant but have my days where I'm relaxed or even like to relinquish some control. I love love love kissing, foreplay, cuddling almost as much as sex itself. Huge on physical touch and communicating. I do have pictures to share as long as you do. I get building something takes time but I want a woman who is sure she is ready for this. I dont want to waste your time or mine. If any of this resonates with you please message me. Tell me your stats and where you are from and little about you. I get this is a scary thing but we all gotta take chances sometimes. Hope you are ready to take this step with me.