Hi there,

As you can imagine, I am here looking for a discrete relationship, so let’s both understand that.

For obvious reasons, I’m using a throwaway account. Discretion is important to me, and I’ll offer you the same level of respect I expect in return.

I’m a 47-year-old Hispanic man living in Santa Clarita. Yes, I’m attached, and my family is my top priority. That said, life is not always simple, and here we are.
This isn’t a last-minute, desperate move for me—it’s something I’ve given a lot of thought to before deciding to take this step. I’m not expecting too much to come out of it, but it feels worth a shot, and perhaps something meaningful might grow from it.

I’d describe myself as reasonably attractive, with a strong appreciation for laughter, good conversation, and meaningful connections. I am naturally dominant, both in my personality and in more intimate aspects of life, but always in a way that’s grounded in mutual understanding. Healthy boundaries, respect, and clear communication are essential to me.

I’m not here for something purely transactional or fleeting. While I’m open to something casual if that’s where your comfort level is, I’d ideally like to find an ongoing connection that feels natural and meaningful.

If we click, great—we’ll see where it goes. If not, no hard feelings. I want this to feel right for both of us.

I understand that safety and trust are critical. I’m in no hurry, and we can take our time. If you prefer to keep things online for a while before meeting in person, I completely understand and will respect your pace.

To make this work, there are a few things I need from you:

• Be willing to accept some ground rules—they’re simple and are there mostly to ensure your comfort.
• Be discrete.
• Do not try to change my situation, I promise I won’t try to change yours.

I want to create a space where you can feel completely at ease—no judgment, no pressure. If you need to talk, I will listen; if you need something physical, I will be there—and everything in between, but only within the boundaries you’re comfortable with.

Ideally, you’re in the SCV area or visit often, but I’m flexible if we need to work out the logistics.

While sex is important to me, it’s not the only thing I’m about. If you’re more interested in meaningful conversation or connection, I’m open to that as well. I’d like this to feel more than just one-dimensional.

If this resonates with you, reach out, and we’ll take things one step at a time—all at a pace that feels right for you.