Hi there! I am looking for online only. I’m diving into this wild world to find someone who sparks my mind, matches my energy, and maybe even grows into something long-term. I’m not here for surface level conversations or fleeting exchanges. I’m looking for someone who feels like home, but keeps me on my toes.

So, a little about you: you’re probably somewhere in the US or Canada, ideally close enough to my time zone (Oregon here) to make staying connected easy. You’re strong, tall, and, let’s be honest, a nice face and a head full of hair are must haves. (bonus points for a beard). You take care of yourself in a way that shows. You know, healthy and proportionate. I want to have what I'm offering.

But what really gets me? Your mind. You love big ideas, questioning reality, and diving into conversations about consciousness, awakening, and all those fascinating “what ifs” that keep us up at night. You’re intellectually curious, the type to ask intriguing questions, not just the “so, how was your day?” kind. A reader and writer? Perfect! Words really get to me.

I’m looking for someone who’s a bit different. Maybe you’ve always felt a little out of place, like you’re pretending to be normal but have a deep, curious side you don’t share with just anyone. Weird is welcome here, as long as it’s not concerning weird.

Connection is huge for me. If we’re building something, it’s more than just a message here and there. I need someone who meets me halfway, with time and space for a real connection. Life’s too short for the bare minimum.

And me? I’ve been called beautiful, cute, even princess like (their words, not mine, but I won’t argue). I’m curvy and busty. Not fat, not skinny, just somewhere in between. My world revolves around books, writing, music, paradigm-shifting science, podcasts, psychology, and AI. I'm grounded but introspective.

I’m not here to be anyone’s therapist or life-changer—I’m happy and whole as I am, just looking for someone who can meet me on my level. If you’re emotionally available, think deeply, and have the bandwidth for something meaningful, let’s see where this goes. Small efforts get ignored, sorry! Tell me about:

If you could unlock the secrets of one universal mystery (like consciousness, the origin of life, or why cats act like tiny gods), which would you choose and why?

What’s one book that changed how you see the world? If you don’t have one yet, what kind of book would you hope to find that does?

Do you think parallel universes exist, and if so, what’s one thing you’d want your alternate self to do differently?