I'm just so sexually frustrated. Otherwise I have a great marriage. Been together for 12 years and have two kids. I just need sex more often than once every two months, and honestly, I'd rather it not be motivated by guilt. We've talked about it, and I've told her how I feel, but I think she just assumes that I'll get over it. My wife is an interesting combination of being gorgeous, and mostly amazing sexually, but also terrible sexually in some trivial respects. I'd be more than happy to talk about that in more detail if we connect. Truth be told it would probably be nice to have someone to vent about it.

While writing this I'm noticing that I'm inclined to defend myself and why I'm looking for this. But I guess this is probably not the time or the place. Or maybe it's exactly that? Who knows. In any case, I think I need a stress relief valve (in the form of an affair) to make sure I can continue to be the relaxed, hard working, easy going person that I enjoy being. And also just to have some exciting fun. I think even just kissing someone new for the first time would be a huge rush. Don't get me wrong, I'm probably more sexually explorative than most but there's an underlying element to having an affair that is extremely exciting.

Alright, a little about me. I love sports (playing more than watching), I like movies, I like science and technology, philosophy, comedy. I can be serious, silly, sarcastic. I like to think of myself as a chameleon. I have a lot of experiences and hobbies that allow me to fit in with pretty much any group of people. And I maintain some pretty differing friends groups. I think I'm decently good looking. I do get hit on and flirted with every once in a while, so I must at least be above a certain threshold (Also my wife is a smoke show, so there's that). I'm in pretty good shape. I don't have a dad bod, but I'm also not cut like I used to be.

What am I looking for? Well, first and foremost someone trustworthy, who isn't looking to blow up my life. Someone patient, who understands that life is busy. And last but certainly not least, someone who enjoys having sex and wants to share that enjoyment with me.

I feel like an angry old man typing into the void. Do you want to build a snowman? It doesn't have to be a snowman.