Once again I find myself here. Hoping that the right person runs across this post, reads it thinking, “wow, this is exactly what I’ve been looking for!”

I’ve been here before. I’ve had coffee dates, walks and I’ve had an affair that broke my heart in the end and everywhere in between. I’ve gone through many conversations that eventually fizzled out. Conversations that start off great and then the person randomly ghosts me. I’m in a dead bedroom marriage of almost 10 years. I’m very high libido and longing for the type of affair that will last! I’m not looking to change my situation or yours, but still looking for feelings and being on your priority list. Being each other’s AP’s, we know we aren’t each other’s number one priority but I feel like we have to be a priority nonetheless. I promise you if you put in effort, you will not be disappointed with what I have to offer back.

Discretion is a must and I appreciate it in return.

I want someone who will message throughout the day when they can, and can have a few phone calls on lunch breaks and when we are alone out and about. Meeting whenever we can, when there is time. Or making time for a quick 10-15 minutes in a parking lot to steal some kisses and conversation for a few minutes just because we needed to be close to one another that badly.

I want the kind of passion that takes your breath away for a second when you think of your lover. The intensity of when you feel their hand grab your body as they pull you in for a hug and kiss, losing yourself in that moment. Counting down the days/minutes until you see them again. That’s the kind of passion I’m looking for. I’m not afraid to catch feelings and if you’re messaging me, you shouldn’t be either. We need to be able to get lost in each other and still know when we part, we go back to our respective lives until we meet again.

A little about me, I’m 41, 5’9, short hair/clean cut look, hazel eyes that I’ve been told are sexy, an extremely fit body and a six pack to die for. I’m a very confident man and I take care of myself, as should you. I hit the gym when I can and like to run some in the warmer months. I have pics and will gladly share. I love spending my free time outdoors more than indoors. Running, being outside, and a day on the lake are always good in my book. Love a good beer while relaxing outside at the end of the day... or 5 while watching a football game lol. I love a night out on the town as much as a cozy night in with a good movie and favorite TV show. We all know the best cuddles lead to a good time 😉

I’m pretty laid back and easy to get along with. I don’t get riled up easily. I don’t do drama of any kind.

Hoping there’s still someone out there who is looking for the same thing I am. Don’t be shy to reach out! Message me and we can talk about anything for a minute or everything for hours.