I’ll be honest. It’s 8:43 p.m. CST on December 31st, 2024, and I’m done waiting. Done smiling through the autopilot moments of a life that looks fine on paper but feels hollow beneath the surface.

For the past 15 months, I’ve been a ghost in my own marriage—a man who hasn’t touched or been touched since September 2023. As the clock ticks toward midnight, I’m not making resolutions. I’m here, writing to you, because I want this year to be different. I want you to be part of that difference.

Who Am I?

I’m 35, a storyteller by trade (marketing), an explorer by nature, and a romantic at heart—even if life has recently dulled that edge. I’m the kind of person who mistakes Taylor Swift lyrics (staring at the big breast, anyone?) and still gets teased about it, yet I’m also the friend who’ll turn a random Tuesday into an unforgettable memory with nothing more than wit and spontaneity.

Physically, I’m 5’6”, South Asian, and solidly average—except in my curiosity, my laughter, and my ability to make you feel seen. I’ve lived in the U.S. for 25 years, balancing cultural layers with a Midwestern sensibility that’s hard not to like.

Who Are You?

You’re more than your roles: wife, mother, professional, caretaker. Beneath it all, you’re a woman with wants—someone who misses that flutter in her chest, the stolen moments, the unspoken electricity between two people who shouldn’t but absolutely must.

You’re smart, sharp, and just mischievous enough to know what I mean without me spelling it out. You understand that true intimacy isn’t just physical; it’s two people who can sit across from each other and feel the world narrow to just that shared space.

What I Want

Not a fling. Not a few texts that fizzle out. Not a shallow “how’s your day?”

I’m here for connection. For those stolen glances that feel like they could ignite a fire. For lunch dates where the food gets cold because the conversation is too good. For nights spent wondering how one person could make your mind race this much.

And yes, I’m here for passion. The kind that makes your breath hitch and your knees weak. But as Taylor Swift said:

"If the sex was half as good as the conversation, we could keep ourselves busy for days."

I want the whole package. A relationship we build slowly but powerfully, with equal parts respect, laughter, and unbridled chemistry.

What You’ll Get From Me

1. Absolute Discretion: What’s shared between us stays between us. Period.
   
2. A Partner Who Listens: To your stories, your frustrations, and every little thing that makes you, you.
   
3. Someone Who Puts You First: Whether it’s a morning text that makes you smile or a spontaneous getaway, your happiness will be my focus.
   
4. Passion Without Pressure: We move at your pace, with your comfort in mind. Always.
   

Why Now?

Because it’s time. Because you’re reading this, wondering if someone out there gets it—gets you. Because this is your permission slip to stop pretending and start living.

Tell me:
- What’s the one song lyric you’ve always misunderstood?
- When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried?
- Or, just share the moment you realized you wanted more.

Whatever it is, start here. Let’s make 2025 a year we’ll never forget.