A strong demisexual, vanilla girl looking for her one of a kind partner. I have a lot to bring to the table, and looking for the RIGHT, ONE person who can match my needs and energy to nurture this relationship.

I am a girl:

• with a bright and bubbly yet soft, comforting personality
• who is kind hearted yet wont put up with any bs
• who is cute, pretty, tall, asian, plenty meat on the bones, curvy
• who is career devoter, go getter, problem fixer
• who enjoys pilates and daily walks
• who loves books, movies, and musicals
• who enjoys texting throughout the day, calls and video calls when schedules line up, and virtual dates
• who loves tea and occasional sweet coffees
• who has done this before with a few LTAPs and wanting an AP who can be her boyfriend
• who is able to put effort and time, invest in a relationship, balances with other life things

I am looking for a mature gentleman:

• who is just a couple of years around my age
• who knows what he wants, what he can bring to the table
• who puts in efforts and invests time and energy into an AP relationship
• who understands demisexuality and knows how to be in a relationship with one
• who is located nearby LA area or able to travel for in person meet up, and has means for in person dates (Im not looking for often meet ups, but do want/need some in person time, so you should have flexibility and means to be able to meet)
• who is tall, good looking (not by your mom), maintains his body. You dont need to be a gym rat or be super fit. Anywhere from skinny to dadbod is good, but not someone who let go and not taking care of themselves.
• who is kind hearted, loving, and warm personality
• who has had LTAPs before and understands what it takes to maintain a steady relationship and balance with other parts of life

Once again, I am a demisexual and need time and connecting to create emotional bond before moving on to “fun” part of the relationship. If you are wanting something casual, light, and low effort, Im not the right fit for you. Please move on to another post**

I believe this relationship can be a great life supplement and enhancer if the right people get together.

If you feel you and I would match well, please send me a well thought out response to tell me why you think we would be a good match. Id like to exchange pics fairly soon, and prefer to communicate on telegram. so if you use that, feel free to share your user ID with your response.

Also, let me know what you are looking forward to the most in 2025 :)

I hope you are the person I've been looking for.