So here I find myself like so many of you longing for that lost connection, passion and novelty. That spark and feeling you get that is all at once intoxicating and fulfilling that need to be known, and desired. Like many I find my marriage is ok but is lacking and feeling dull. As an outgoing and enthusiastic guy I am seeking someone to connect though I suppose that is where I am bit of a dreamer and with that I am looking for a partner who is a bit of a contrast. If you find yourself in these contracting parameters lets chat and see if we have some further exploring.

So are you someone who is:

-Sophisticated, professional, well spoken, well read and savvy while also being able to cut loose, chat about binge worthy TV and enjoys pop culture

-Comfortable selecting a nice bottle of champagne for Apres Ski while also seeking out the deepest and fluffiest powder on the mountain

-Can carry both your nice handbag for a night out on the town but also wear a backpack for a hike through the forest do you have both high heels and hiking boots?

-Enjoys a multi-course prix-fixe menu but also enjoys a nice dive bar burger

-Is seen as an upstanding person in their community but also has a naughty side

-Can find this place we create together as an escape from the everyday but in the same moment talk about the everyday in texts and chats

-Can be serious and deep but can also laugh at themselves and enjoy a joke at their expense

-thinks to yourself while rolling your eye "who is this guy" and also thinks to yourself as mummer and grin wondering "who is this guy"

They are plenty more of these contrast of parameters that might make us a right fit for each and perhaps you have your own that you might propose back to me, lets chat and see, the worst that could happen is you realize you spent a few finger strokes and words with someone who is not your cup of tea.