I’ve never been one to say this but I think I’m going to change up some things next year.

Me: 40 (newly 40 & dont lookin it), married, one younger child, black, 5’9 (maybe a little taller), stocky built (hwp), short cut fade, nice neatly kept beard. Easy going, laid back and sane guy. Cool vibes, no pressure. I’m usually always the positive type, glass half full type of guy. One of my goals in life is to make good memories because when you’re old and in a nursing home, that’s all you have left. I enjoy tv shows (supernatural is my fav), the office, anime, adult animation (Rick & Morty) and I sometimes eat cereal for diner.

What I’m looking for: a legit connection. A foundation with friendship that grows to more. Would like to chat for a bit, exchange pics early on to make sure we have some sort of attraction. That’s not high on my list because I believe personality makes someone more or less attractive. I would like to meet up after some chatting for coffee or tea or anything really to get a sort of “in person” feel for each other. The goal is to be open with each other and be our own escapes when we need a break. Also, want to chat daily, about anything shallow or deep. Things bothering you at work? Got a pay on the back? Got a promotion/raise? Let’s celebrate, or let’s talk crap about the brown nose coworker. I won’t judge if you brown nose 😂.

Ideal Woman: the main thing is just be true to yourself. Know at least somewhat of what you want. Height, weight, shape, size, race does not matter to me. Your mind is more important than looks. Although I do have a thing for the chubby mom bod type but it’s not a deal breaker if you love to workout, run, etc. I am beginning my fit stage soon so that will be something we can either talk about or help each other out. As far as age, be at least 35, I don’t really have a limit as I’ve talked to women in the past (my 20’s), who were in their upper 50’s to early 60’s, it was fun but we both knew it wouldn’t last. I want all the feels, I want us to know each other the best! I also never judge anyone.

Hopefully, you’re looking for the same with the possibility to meet up. I would love something weekly but I understand the time balance of this. But, the more in person, the better!!! Hope to hear from you and I wish everyone else good luck!!!!