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Marriage has its comforts, but a decade in, it also has its challenges. Over time, the excitement faded, and life becomes a series of routines—work, kids, responsibilities. I wouldn’t change the life I’ve built, but I can’t ignore the part of me that misses the thrill of feeling wanted.
I’m a mid-30s working professional in the Boston suburbs. Life looks good on the surface filled with success, but underneath, there’s a quiet craving for something more. I want to feel like a teenager again—to get those butterflies, to laugh at inside jokes, to feel that rush when you can’t wait to hear from someone. And just as much as I want to feel wanted, I want to make someone else feel the same.
I’ve fallen for women of all shapes, colors, and eye colours before. What matters most to me isn’t how you look, but how you carry yourself—your confidence, your wit, and the way you approach life. If you’re also married, tied to responsibilities but longing for that spark, we might just have something in common.
I’m looking for someone local, someone who values discretion and understands the need for boundaries. But within those boundaries, I want to create something exciting—something that makes us both feel alive again.
If this sounds like what you’re looking for too, let’s start a conversation and see where it takes us.
I’ve had a couple of APs in the past but they were just far enough away that between busy careers and the family responsibilities - they sizzled out eventually.
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