I realize this is not for everyone. But - one of the things I realized is that while my current relationship is otherwise good, the lack of my partner's interest in kink, while initially I thought I could overlook, has worn on me and I have realized that kink is part of me. It is not something I can ignore. I need it. Perhaps you are in the same position. Like we all say - not looking to disrupt anything in either of our personal lives.

I have had kinky relationships in the past and while in those relationships other things were lacking, the physical and intellectual aspects of our sex life was amazing. I am very open-minded and non judgemental - hopefully you are the same. I would like to find a woman who also craves something more than vanilla. I would love to find a fit/petite/athletic, smart, well put together woman who .. well has more interests than her circle of friends might know. Maybe you love lingerie, porn, try new sex toys, role play, group sex, sex parties or are curious about D/s. I’d love to get to know you and have someone I can share my kinky thoughts and needs with. Some of the things I have explored are D/s (spankings, homework/tasks/orders, DDlg), sexy panties and lingerie, toys, oral sex, cum play (breeding/creampies, swallowing), and some group play. Certainly not everyone has the same kinks and fantasies so it’s absolutely no big deal if yours don’t fully align. I am very interested in hearing more about the kinks and fantasies you have. A major part of all this for me is having a partner we each feel safe in sharing needs, trying new things, and not feeling judged.

I am 42, well educated, professional, down to earth, good looking. Discreet.

If this is something that interests you, please reach out. Thanks for reading and best of luck.