Here’s the deal:

-Every so often (2-3 times a year, maybe more), we go for a vacation. This could be an actual vacation we plan out or you could join me on one of my business trips.

-We meet up somewhere and spoil each other rotten with affection, touch, desire and sheer ungodly naughtiness. We explore all our synergies. Anything but the monotonous.

-We devour the location touristically or in the way which suits us, and, of course, also devour each other in the most mind blowing and unspeakable of ways, when it comes to that. Anything but the monotonous.

-I do not mind where you are based, as long as you can meet a couple of times a year - ideally in North America and/or Europe. The title includes some of the places I frequent but we don’t have to meet there.

-Please be honest with yourself about your ability to pull this off. Be able to travel. I travel for work multiple times a year, so this aligns with my normal schedule, so to speak.

-I don’t want a bog-standard affair. I want one which really respects our current situations (as much as possible, acting as supplementary), while recognising the need for something more; adrenaline, butterflies, you know the works. Something that is more of a slow burner due to the frequency of meet ups, but with real highlights and memories.

-We will meet a couple of tines a year, but we will make every minute worth it when we do. That I assure you.

Me:

-Mixed race (to the untrained eye I’m black). 35. Married. Lived on three continents. Well rounded and well travelled.

-I am based in the UK. The nature of my work takes me all over the world.

-Degree-educated, working in a professional career which is public-facing, so discretion is a must. Published writer, so I may or may not judge you on your grammar.

-Easygoing, kind and thoughtful. Love to explore my surroundings and have a sense for adventure. Good conversationalist - but only as good as the person at the end of the line. Great listener - far too many people tell me their secrets. Fiercely loyal. Voracious reader. Fitness conscious, but not obsessed. Sweet toothed. Kink friendly.

-I am the type of person no one would imagine I’m on here, because on the surface everything seems perfect.

You:

-Married. 30-50. Drama-free, kind, curious, thoughtful and open minded.

-I’m open to all races and body types, and while I need some physical attraction the chemistry between us eclipses everything else.

-Rather than making this an exhaustive list of what I’m looking for, I would rather engage with someone because chemistry isn’t a box ticking exercise. We can connect with people we least expect to connect with. Let’s see what kind of combustion we can get. Bring the fire extinguisher, just in case.

-Water-tight OPSEC. This is not my first time swimming in this world, and I would prefer it is not yours. I expect a PhD in compartmentalisation.

-I am not looking for a pen pal I’ll never meet. We will primarily communicate through Telegram (or another app) at a frequency which works for both of us. I am methodical about this: messaging , then phone call, then video call (so I verify the angel I’ve been talking to is a not a devil), and then a physical meet.

If this interests you at all, do message me to tell me a little about yourself and a trip you’d like to take someday and why. Let’s talk, connect and see where it leads. Cheers!