Hey all,
Thanks for taking the time.

Like most of us here, I'm in an incredibly rough position in my marriage. It stems from... probably years of pent up issues and struggles and communication issues. Stuff we've worked on, stuff we've gone to therapy for, stuff we continue to struggle with.

I know an affair is probably the cowards way out and a way to fulfill something missing in my own life without having to go through the pain of fixing something difficult. But I'm tired, and I feel unwanted for who I am from my spouse. A lot of our current struggles seem to stem from a difference in opinion on religion and worldview. I've... made mistakes, I've never cheated before, all of this is new to me, and to be honest I've only been with her and one other girlfriend sexually in my life, so I'm fairly vanilla when it comes to these things.

Anyway....... I'm tall, dark, handsome, I am successful and probably care a bit too much about what other people think about me. I have a deep desire to be known and liked and understood. I love finding music with great lyrics, I love finding new artists that speak to me, watching movies that make me think differently about life. I love finding little hole-in-the-wall spots around town that are cozy, fun, comfy, and have great foods and drinks. I love trying my hand at cooking new foods, mixing new drinks.

I'm of the mindset that everything in life should be tried at least once.

I'm looking for someone who is... maybe a bit kinky, but no shame if you're not. I have a lot of desires and things I'd love to explore if you are though. Things my wife has been... less than excited to engage in trying. Nothing degrading, but, just... non-vanilla.

I'm openminded, open to people of all backgrounds, and hoping to find someone who would like to forge a real relationship and connection. I hope to hear from you!