TLDR: looking for another person who constantly craves sensuality from new people, pervy and kinky minded, obviously seeking the fun and spark of a secret partner, even more points if this is a part of you that you enjoy about yourself with no shame but still keep it hidden to maintain relationships or the much cleaner outside perception of yourself. Also passionate about random or important stuff in your life, from hobbies, TV, sports, weird collections, anything as long as you have a strong interest and love discussing it.

Looking to spend a bit of time talking and getting to know each other so we likely don't align too well if you're looking for an immediate physical situation.

Figure writing a novel is probably not always ideal for all but hopefully it leads to meeting someone who strongly connects with what I strive for and feel.

What I'm looking for?

I'm a way probably just my mind twin. The mental connection with someone who thinks and feels similar to me is one of the things I desire most from this space. Sensuality, pleasure, mental and physical stimulation are some of our biggest drivers.

To start I love the naked body. Short or tall, skinny or chubby, young or old, any skin color, natural body hair or shaved, I just love to admire every aspect of it. The visual is obviously a huge driver but mainly it's my desire to please and explore anyone that wants it. Experience the small mannerisms, facial expressions, everything sensory that's associated with enjoying our bodies.

The next part is kind of an extension of the first part, but seeking someone who might consider themselves deep down to be kinky if not a bit pervy. Not necessarily in the ropes and handcuffs type of kinky (which doesn't mean I don't like that), but more in the sense of having a very active and unconventional sexual mind. Whatever deeper desires, fantasies, or turns on that you have never discussed in person with anyone, it's also very enjoyable to discuss and explore about in an inhibited manner, no judgement for almost anything really.

On the same level of importance I also really enjoy talking with people that are passionate about something. It doesn't have to be career or hugely important, even passionate about your favorite show, a hobby, movies, just a deep interest in something. Along with exploring bodies i obviously love enjoying minds and to me that level of passion is a big indicator of a mind worth meeting.

And last, obviously being okay or even enjoying the fact that we're doing something in secret. Cliche and every post has it, ideally we're both in relationships where we want to maintain our current situations but just seeking the fun, spark, and flame that comes from having a connection in secret.

Who am I?

In my 30s, professional working in my studied career and I'd consider myself fairly successfull. Overweight in a dad body type of way but working on improving that since I was more fit before I injured myself. Romantic relationship is good honestly, sex isn't bad by any means but my mind can't help but constantly crave a new person to explore this side of ourselves. Despite my thoughts and desires, in person in always respectful and I strive to never make anyone uncomfortable or uneasy. While I seek to have an inhibited exploration of each other, I will respect any boundary you're wanting to set.

I enjoy collecting, gardening, gaming a bit mostly to keep in touch with past friends who have moved away, very general and cliche but movies in general. And more if you'd like to discuss!