Another drop in the constant stream of M4F posts, right? Like a degenerate gambler placing their last $1 on red I'm still thinking "maybe this will be the one...". So, why not write a novel in the hope that I can wear down and lure that elusive AP we're all seeking.

Life's not bad, in a comfortable way. But where's the rush? The excitement of connecting with someone that "just gets you". I seek that too. The chase. The desire to impress, to seduce. I want to be intimate with each other enough that if we ever do meet we're both nervous with anticipation and ready to rip each other's clothes off.

Well, let's get the basics out of the way: I'm 39, married, on the East Coast of the US. I'm 6'2, 180pds, fit with a clean-cut look, green eyes and dark brown hair (with some pesky grays) that I probably care a little too much about styling. I look young for my age, which has been a blessing and a curse (depending on the situation). Not a gym rat, but I'm a runner and feel confident in my body. I enjoy exploring the world through travel and language (prefer a hostel and backpack to a resort), I'm a bibliophile, B-movie lover and work in a field that uses a lot of dreaded math. If you're an explorer as well, we'll probably get along.

Ideally you're between 35 and 50 and in the U.S. I'm most attracted to those that are passionate about life and enjoy sharing those passions with others. I'd prefer to exchange pics relatively early just so we each have a face to go off of. Finally, I know the guys are (rightfully) chided for this, but all of us could use the reminder: please put in more effort than basic descriptions and staid question answering. I think we'd all love to discover someone's personality and not just their responses to Twenty Questions. We're not face-to-face but it should still be a conversation, not a job interview.

If you're still with me then maybe it's kismet. Reach out and let's go exploring...