I know many here are wanting some light, fun, sex focused relationship. Im looking for something much much more. So please only respond if you are seriously interested, let’s not waste each other’s time.

I am looking for a mature gentleman, - who is around my age - who knows what he wants, what he can bring to the table - who puts in efforts and invests time and energy into a relationship, even if we may be APs (if he is wanting a girlfriend type AP, even better) - who understands demisexuality and knows how to be in a relationship with one - who is located in Socal or able to travel for in person meet up, and has means for in person dates - who is tall, Caucasian (not a huge deal break if you arent but overall vibe is important), maintains his body (you dont need to be a gym rat nor super fit. Anywhere from skinny to dadbod is good, but not someone who let themselves go nor not taking care of them) - who is kind hearted, loving, and warm personality - who has had LTAPs before and understands what it takes to maintain a steady relationship and balance with other parts of life - who has hobbies or passionate about something to

Once again, I am a demisexual and need time and connecting to create emotional bond before moving on to “fun” part of the relationship. If you are wanting something casual, light, and low effort, Im not the right fit for you. Please move on to another post

A bit about me- - a bright and bubbly yet soft, comforting personality - kind hearted yet wont put up with bs - cute, pretty, tall, asian, meat on the bones, curvy - career devoter, go getter, problem fixer - enjoys pilates and daily walks - a lover of books, movies, and musicals - enjoys texting throughout the day, calls and video calls when schedules line up, and virtual dates - tea lover, sweet coffee lover time to time - have done this before with a few LTAPs and wanting an AP who can be her boyfriend - able to put effort and invest in a relationship, balances with other life things

I believe this relationship can be a great life supplement and enhancer if the right people get together. Im looking for my person, and hope you are it.

If you feel you and I would match well, please send me a thought out response why you think we would be a great fit.

Also, please tell me your favorite color.

Looking forward to meeting you soon