About Me:
I’m a 35-year-old guy who knows the difference between passion and routine—and let’s just say, I’m overdue for the former. I hold a grad school degree, work as a marketer, and keep active with workouts three times a week (I’m 5’6” with an “average” build, but I promise what I lack in height, I make up for in effort). I’m brown, originally from India but have spent 25 years in the U.S., so you’ll find I bring a mix of cultures and perspectives to the table (and maybe some killer food recommendations too).

Married for a decade but living in a dead bedroom for the last 4-5 years, I’ve realized it’s time to do something for myself. If you’re in a similar situation, let’s explore what we’ve both been missing—without disrupting the lives we’ve built.

You’ll find I’m thoughtful, discreet, and driven by connection. I crave conversations that linger, moments that ignite, and a partner who values both chemistry and companionship. While my experience is limited, I can promise that in the bedroom, your pleasure is my top priority.

What I’m Looking For:
I want to meet a smart, confident, and like-minded woman who’s also looking for a single, long-term affair. Someone who understands that connection starts in the mind and spills over into everything else.

I’m drawn to women who have their own lives, ambitions, and secrets but want to share a part of themselves with someone who gets it. You’re drug- and disease-free, in a similar age range as me, and willing to take the time to build something meaningful—a stolen lunch date, an intimate dinner, or even a weekend getaway to a place where we can let go of everything else.

While looks aren’t my primary focus, I’ll admit there’s nothing sexier than someone who knows how to carry herself and enjoys exploring both her thoughts and desires.

What You Can Expect:
Discretion is a must, and I’ll respect yours as much as my own. I’ll never ask for explicit photos or anything else that feels rushed or forced. For me, the best connections are built on trust and anticipation. I’m happy to exchange pictures after we’ve chatted a bit and felt the vibe.

I won’t overwhelm you with messages or act needy. This is about rediscovering passion, not replacing your life. Think of me as the escape button on your keyboard—when things feel overwhelming, we can meet in our own little bubble and hit reset.

How to Start:
What’s the best coffee you’ve ever had—or better yet, the place that makes you feel like you can escape everything, even for a moment? Let’s meet there. Or, if coffee’s not your thing, tell me about the moment in life that made you feel truly free—I’d love to hear about it.

A Final Thought:
They say curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back. Let’s see where curiosity takes us.