It's "cuffing season", and I've taken a long break from this community after exploring a few APs that either weren't good matches, or didn't work out due to life happening or difficult to reconcile schedules - there are some truly amazing people you can connect with on here, which says something for reddit overall, as well as some absolutely shining gems of posts from time to time as well. If you're one of those people and we've spoken before, hope you're doing well :)

That being said, reddit never really changes, which is something you can count on.

Still overwhelming M4F posts, and for when women do post, they're either being horribly overwhelmed, or met with enough thirst traps that a.) either fail to ignore whatever the ask is, physical, geographic, or otherwise, or b.) type or respond with something so effortless that it sort of defeats the purpose in any case. Also, for no reason, guys downvoting any post that isn't a woman as if it'll somehow eliminate competition. Seriously guys, why??

So for those that like putting in the effort (I see you), let's raise the bar, shall we?

I'm an attached, discreet, and professional 39 year old guy living and working in Boston (in spite of my username, which throws people for a loop). Mature, sane, and looking for something ongoing, ideally exclusive, and physical, with someone who understands that with everything going on (regular life, job, etc.), there's only so much time for chatting, fun, and anything else that you have, which is why you make it meaningful, and fun as hell for when you have it together.

Why am I here? For the same reason as you - you have needs, desires, gaps that aren't being filled in, and I'm looking to fill in what I'm missing as well.

I'm well read, enjoy travel, good food, good conversations, good drinks, and good company. I like to keep active, and health is important to me. I value laughter, sarcasm, gallows humor, dad jokes and bad jokes. Fairly well rounded with a good dash of nerd, and trend fairly liberal.

Appearance wise, I'm 5'10, white, athletic, often described as cute/handsome, and a nice smile. Not getting a great picture because I'm vague? 100% intentional! But there are photos that I'm not hesitant to share if there's mutual interest and good OPSEC, so you won't be left in the dark or seeing a photo of me from 10 years ago.

How about you, dear reader? (I see you, sailing in the sea here) You are local to the Boston area, active/athletic, fun, real, and know what you want. Not an escape plan, not solely online, and most certainly not someone for date nights, vacations, and unrealistic time commitments, because if we all had that much freedom, we wouldn't be here, would we?

If you're interested, please send a DM, and let's see if we're a good match. If you're local to Boston and just want to say hi, that's cool too. But most of all, whether you're a guy, girl, or just swinging by my post because you see the city, I hope you find what you're looking for.