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31 [M4F] #Boston Seeking Connection Beyond Ordinary
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ochablan is a male age 31 looking for a female in Boston
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Iā€™m looking for something meaningful but not disruptiveā€”something rooted in mutual understanding and connection. If your idea of this is a purely casual fling or a shallow, no-strings situation, Iā€™m not your guy. I value depth and honesty - not just having fun! Iā€™m seeking someone who feels the same

Life has been good in many waysā€”Iā€™m married to my college sweetheart, and weā€™ve recently had our first child. Iā€™m in a situation where intimacy has taken a little backseat, and while I love my family, I miss the sense of excitement. Iā€™d love to find someone who understands this kind of spaceā€”someone who also values trust, shared energy, and emotional connection just as much as the physical.

To be clear, Iā€™m not looking to upend my life or yours. Iā€™d like to find someone who, like me, wants to fill a missing piece while respecting the boundaries of our lives. I want us both to feel fulfilled without complicating what already matters to us.

A little about me: Iā€™m 31, Asian, and work in a corporate field Iā€™m passionate about. I work downtown Boston. Iā€™ve been honing my career for over nine years, and I love what I do. Iā€™m 5ā€™6ā€, lean and athletic, and Iā€™ve been told I look younger than my age (whether thatā€™s good or bad is up to you). Iā€™d like to meet someone close to my age or a little older and self-awareā€”someone who knows what they want and isnā€™t afraid to be authentic.

Letā€™s connect!

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