Everyone is looking for something to fit some kind of need/want. Some will take the first thing that comes along. Some will scrutinize every angle. While I am open to a variety of situations, I do lean towards the discerning side (the fancy way of saying I’m picky). You should too in my opinion because why bother with something that’s just ok when you’re putting oneself out here with quite a lot to lose.

I’m looking to find someone to casually banter with, build a rapport, find someone trust, and accept one another for what we bring to the table. I’m intelligent (both emotionally and intellectually), curious, respectful of boundaries and priorities. I’m at a pretty good place in my life, looking to add a little extra pizzazz. Fill some of those intimacy gaps.

I’m not here to upset any apple carts or navigate a lot of complexity. Not here to find any kind of replacement. Just want to add a little fun and joy to our lives.

So while I am truly open to different scenarios and want to see how they play out, I obviously have an ideal. I’ll share it but don’t be scared away if it doesn’t align with your reality.

Ideally I’d find someone in the Eugene/Corvallis or surrounding area who might work from home or has some flexibility. This will make eventual meet ups a little easier. Someone who’s intelligent and also in a relatively decent spot in their life. Someone who would want to have conversations of more than just a few words. Someone who’s discreet. And open minded. Someone with a little higher than average libido. Maybe toss in a little kink. Doesn’t necessarily want the full “relationship experience” but does have some areas they want to indulge a little more in. Whether it’s great make out sessions is just chatting about this crazy world. If you like going to the mountains in the winter, that’s a bonus as it could allow for some get away road trips.

Anyway, I’m happy to share more and if you’re at all inclined, please drop me a note. Let’s see what happens.