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Not sure how exactly to go about this. I don’t want to sound like every other submissive guy on here but I suppose there’s a certain futility in that.
I live in Northern California and have done all the things I’m supposed to have done and boy, don’t i look great to the outside world. But it’s so empty and I feel so lost and unfulfilled.
My wife is totally disinterested sexually. I’m looking for someone with a sharp mind, a quick wit, an open and non judgmental disposition. You don’t have to necessarily share my interest in dominance and submission but hope you are at least open to listening to me and letting me share and open up about who and what I am and my frustrations and hopes and desires, etc. And of course sharing yours with me. If you are into, all the better. But i just want to be clear that i seek something more connected and more intimate than a quick fix or a one off.
I’m 45. Fit and active and educated and professionally successful. I think I’m considered on the more positive end of the appearance spectrum. I work in finance but am definitely not your typical finance guy. I’ve lived in interesting places and done some interesting things. But after all that somehow found myself here.
I’m self aware and always trying to be more so. I’m working on myself and dedicated to being a better communicator, more open, more empathetic, and a better listener.
I like outdoorsy things like kayaking and skiing and sailing and hiking. I also love a great meal, a nice bottle of red wine, and holing up with a partner and watching movies (or perhaps engaging in something more titillating)… I’ll leave it there for now
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