I’m a 41-year-old man who lives life with curiosity, purpose, and a smile their face! I'd rather be out exploring than stuck on a couch watching sports. Don’t expect me to know who’s winning the big game—I’d rather be out exploring a new restaurant or traveling to a new city.

My life’s been an adventure so far: I run a business I’m passionate about, have traveled to 20 countries, and picked up three languages along the way. My friends would say I’m upbeat, kind, down-to-earth, and quick with a clever remark—but you can decide that for yourself!

I’m 6’2”, stay active, and was once a college athlete (though these days I prefer to play sports for fun). People often tell me I don’t look my age—hopefully, they mean younger and not “seasoned”! 😂 I have black hair, a clean-cut, and a wardrobe that leans more Milan than Midwest.

What I’m Looking For:
Like everyone else, I’m here searching for that missing piece—someone who gets me, adds a spark to life, and makes me look forward to every conversation and moment together. A long-term connection that you could call a "bestie with benefits."

I want a connection that feels authentic—a friendship with no judgment, jealousy, or drama. Just good vibes! Someone who knows how to speak their mind, and throw in some playful teasing. Our conversations could be equal parts thoughtful and hilarious; mixed with wit and flirtatious banter!

My love languages are acts of service and words of affirmation. You can bet I'll always have your back and make you feel seen. I'll have no problem telling you how amazing you are. And yes! I'll call you "beautiful," and maybe even "princess" or "good girl" if that's your thing!

What I Bring to the Table:

• Smiles! I'll occasionally catch you off guard with a blush-worthy comment.
• Mutual respect. Your boundaries and privacy will be a priority!
• I’ll make sure you feel seen, valued, and cared for.
• Understanding. I’ll always have your back, and listen with empathy.
• A big, long, fat...sense of humor that knows how to hit you in just the right spot!

Dislikes:

• Spouse-bashing - Not my style.
• Neediness - We both have a life and families. We can't always be online.
• Anger - I just don't have time for it. I'm a very happy person.

I'm not here to change your situation or for you to change mine. I just want us to be a positive addition to our lives and fill that missing piece. I want to make you feel beautiful, desired, and wanted. After all, that's why we're here, right?

And stop lurking already!!! Just respond! lol

To break the ice, tell me two truths and a lie about yourself, and I'll guess the lie. Your move!

Looking forward to meeting you, bestie!