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It’s not frigid everywhere. But is in a great many places in the United States and Canada. And frigid in multiple ways for a lot of us, including myself.
Maybe you can relate. Dead bedroom. But worse, I can’t talk to the spouse. I don’t trust her with what I feel. It’s not even a relationship of friends. It’s like being with a roommate who compels you to spend all of your time elsewhere. Anyhow, I’m a 46/M somewhere in the middle of the U.S. I’m looking for someone intelligent, 25-50. Someone accomplished or with massive goals and a plan to get there. Someone whose life is missing something. Someone who adores long exchanges of messages and phone calls, who views emotional intimacy as the road to physical connection.
I’d love to share as many moments as possible with someone special. And, yes, someone who wants to change their life. There are a great many posts here about not wanting to change each other’s life, wanting to stay in their situation. Screw that. I want you to change my life, and I hope I’ll change yours. We’re all here because of unhappiness on some level. It’s time to stop messing around and find happiness. It’s time to fill the void.
And while it’s about the emotional and intellectual connection, yes, the physical attraction comes into play at some point. So, in that vein, I’m 5-6 with a dad bod. Would prefer to find someone 5-7 or shorter. And if I’m making a list, I’d love to find a woman who was curvy/voluptuous/BBW. Also, I’m not MAGA-friendly; if you see the world that way, all the best to you, but it won’t work. This isn’t a political thing. It’s a compassion toward fellow human beings thing. DMs and chat open.
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