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I’m 45, and lately, I’ve been reflecting a lot on where I am in life. Professionally, things are good—I’m a professor, and I enjoy teaching and connecting with students. But on a personal level, I’ve found myself feeling disconnected in ways I hadn’t expected. I’m married with a family, but over time, I’ve realized there’s a part of me that’s not being fully nurtured. It’s a difficult thing to admit, but it’s there, and it’s hard to ignore. I’m not looking to change my life completely or tear things down, but I do find myself longing for something deeper, a connection I’m not currently finding.
I guess what I’m after is something more intimate, something real. I’m not interested in drama or casual flings—I want connection with someone who understands the complexities of life. Someone who’s lived a little, someone around my age or older, who knows what it’s like to juggle multiple facets of life. I’m drawn to that maturity, that sense of self-assurance that comes from experience. It’s not about replacing what I have at home, but about finding that spark again, in a way that feels genuine, not forced.
I know this is complicated, and I’m not pretending otherwise. But I’m at a point in my life where I want to be honest about my needs. I’m looking for something real, where we can connect without pretenses. Life’s too short to not acknowledge what makes us feel alive, and right now, I’m hoping to find someone who’s open to exploring that with me, knowing the complexities but appreciating the potential for something meaningful.
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