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Hoping this finds the right person that lights the spark to a fulfilling and satisfying connection! And hopefully that right person is you!
Why am I here? Well, Iām in my mid-20s in a marriage that had a near-dead bedroom on arrival. I married my best friend from college about a year and a half ago. Most of our relationship works wellā¦ but our sex life does not. Never has, sadly. I have a very high libido, but my wife has a very low one. I would honestly love to have sex every day if I could, but sheās content with once every two months (which is what ends up happening anyway). I want to explore my kinks and try new things, but she is VERY vanilla. Itās not just sexually frustrating, itās emotionally draining at this point. She makes me feel unwanted and it hurts. I canāt help but feel like Iām wasting the sexual prime of my life. I want to be wanted. To be desired on a deep and primal level. I want to let it all out with a woman whoās just as sexually charged as I am. Who wants me just as much as I want her. Who takes as much joy in pleasuring me as I do in pleasuring her. Iām hoping that woman is you!
What am I looking for? For lack of a better term, a friend with benefits who is genuinely my friend. I want us to get to know each other, talk about our days, learn about each otherās quirks, likes and dislikes. I want us to have a genuine connectionā¦ and also have lots of funš weāll keep things online for now, with chatting, phone calls, and video calls (phone and video calls are especially important to me!!). I have Snapchat and discord for that, but not telegram (Sorry, I know thatās a popular choiceš š) However, if the opportunity is there and the time is right, I might not be opposed to irl! Not looking to change my situation or yours, though!
What am I like? Great question! Physically, Iām 6ā0ā, Caucasian, with light brown hair and green eyes. Iāve been told Iām handsome. I have a slight dad bod, but Iāve been working on thatāexercising at the gym, building muscle, and losing weight! Speaking of which, Iāve come to love being active. I go to the gym as regularly as I can. I love to hike when I find a nice trail. I enjoy kayaking on occasion too! But make no mistakeāI am also very much a geek. Iām a big fan of Marvel and Star Wars, and I enjoy spending quality time watching movies! I can also play guitar and sing. I have been told I have āgolden retriever energy.ā Want to know more? Feel free to ask!
What kind of person am I looking for? I value women with intelligence and a sense of humor. Iām hoping to find someone who stays active but also enjoys some cozy time in. I donāt exactly have a ātype,ā but if you have curly hair I can pretty much guarantee Iāll be attracted to youš I hope youāre the kind of person whoās sweet in publicā¦ but not afraid to get wild when it countsš
Think weād be a good match? Feel free to reach out! Hope to hear from you soon!
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