Okay, let's jump together on 3! 1......2.......3........

First things first. This isn't my first rodeo and it shouldn't be yours either. I'm not looking for someone who hasn't navigated these waters and all that comes with it before.

My "why" is fairly simple (at least it is to me). I've been married almost 20 years at this point; it's not a bad marriage but it's not great either and I miss feeling like I matter to someone. If we chat we can get into why I feel like I don't matter but we all know it's just not a great feeling.

Now about me (I hate talking about myself). I'm a 44yo guy who has one kid. I'm 6ft, athletic build, salt & pepper beard, and bald. If you're not into bald guys, your loss I guess. I've been told I'm pretty quick witted and I'm fluent in sarcasm. I don't take myself seriously. I enjoy working out because it's my time to clear my head and gather my thoughts, and the vain side of me wants to look good shirtless. My musical tastes all all over the place; Run the Jewels, Bob Seger, Foo Fighters, Nas, Dirks Bentley, GNR, you get the idea. I'd like to say I like to read but in reality I haven't picked up a book in about a year. I love to travel, well I love being places - it's the getting there that I don't enjoy.

Here's the type of woman I'm looking for. Like I mentioned before, someone who's had an affair before and knows what OPSEC is. Ideally between the ages of 29-48 but there can be some leeway there if we hit it off. I'm not looking for a woman who is a Victoria's Secret model. but please take care of yourself and be confident in your own skin. We can start chatting on here but would like to move to Telegram fairly quickly so we can exchange pictures to see if the physical connection is there.

I'd like to find someone local-ish. I'm not looking to cross state lines, so someone within the 248 or 313 area codes works the best. Ideally would like to be able to meet up with schedules allow - we both have lives we need to live so I know scheduling can be an obstacle at times.

If you're still here after reading this, slide into my DMs with the last place you traveled to for vacation...