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41 year old Asian man, tall, in shape, white collar job, healthy dose of side hobbies, have a cat (best and only roommate), enjoys conversations and getting to know someone.
I'm single, not attached, not my first rodeo. In my past experiences, I've made close and intimate friends with women in permanent situations, and they have (to my great surprise) worked out really well. Ample care has always been taken.
I've have been on the successful side of this. The secret boyfriend that's there for your own fun. The flexibility of timing. The ability to host regularly without anyone asking questions. The available ear on talking about things you really can't talk about with anyone else. And if I'm going to be completely honest, I enjoy being the sidepiece. I like the seemingly platonic friendliness outside followed by the complete change once the doors close. I enjoy being the object of physical affection.
It works for my own life situation. I'm not interested in finding "the one"; I live an independent life and just haven't been able to find someone to spend the rest of it with. And truth be told, I find women here to be more direct, more knowledgeable and clear about what they want, less on playing games. Partly because there is more at stake.
I know where the lines are drawn, and I won't cross them.
I'm interested in a woman that knows exactly what they want out of this arrangement and is wanting to go forward with it in a discreet manner (I have Telegram, etc.). More than happy to exchange pictures early to see if it would work out, and can host.
Hoping to hear from you.
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