There are many different reasons why each of us has stumbled or sprinted into the affairs world of Reddit. Neglect and indifference at home can manifest in an array of unique yet relatable ways. My tale is one of meeting my spouse early on in life, waiting until marriage for sex, and getting married young. I have a friendship at home, but there are deep needs and desires which I no longer want to have to bury and hide. Can you relate?

I am not new to the affairs scene. By the time my 30’s hit, I was needing to see if I was a complete lunatic for having the cravings and fantastical imagination which I possess. I guess time will tell if there is a kindred spirit out there who has a mind similar to mine.

I am seeking a daily connection where mutual care, support, discovering of each other, and adult frivolities can flow freely and effortlessly. I want to know as much about you as I can. I want to be a safe place for you concerning everything. I want to excite you in ways that you felt were only possible in a dream.

With the responsibilities I have at home, evenings and weekends are very difficult for me to be messaging. It’s a different story during the work week!! I am very available to text, send voice messages, send pics/videos, and be extremely present during the morning hours and work day. Please have similar freedoms and be able to do more than just text during the work day. I truly enjoy hearing and seeing each other as much as possible. It helps deepen the connection greatly. I am very much a proponent of communication that is mutually open and compassionate. I dream of voice calls during the commute to and from work, voice messages excitedly exchanged, and videos taken and shared of each other that help show how excited we are to bond/please each other.

Physically, I do not have a type. For me, you sharing your smile, your laugh, your voice, and your caring personality shines through most. Please don’t hold back from responding if you feel your curves are too much. I assure you, there is no such thing as too much in respect to curves and your figure. I am tall (6’) and have a solid dad bod (275lbs), clean haircut, trimmed beard, broad shoulders, soothing voice, and a warm smile.

If the way I express myself springs great curiosity within your mind, please reach out :)

I am naturally leading and guiding with a tender, calming presence. There are just parts of me that are smoldering beneath and aching to get out.