Life’s funny, isn’t it? You can have everything on paper — a good job, a significant other, hobbies you enjoy, a comfortable routine — and still feel like something’s missing. That’s where I find myself now, and maybe you do too. I’m ready to fill that gap with something exciting, genuine, and a little unexpected. Could it be with you?

I’m 32, from Wisconsin, 6’0, with a lean build (~150lbs) and a love for curiosity, conversation, and finding ways to make others smile. I’ve got a PhD and a steady career, but what really fulfills me is connection — the kind that allows me to let my guard down and be completely in the moment with someone. Whether it’s a quiet hike, geeking out over movies (Conclave is underrated, don’t fight me on this), or getting lost in shared thoughts, I’m happiest when I feel guided and understood.

I’ve never been with a man before, but it’s something I’ve thought about for a long time. Now, I’m ready to take that step and explore what this could mean. I’m looking for someone patient, grounded, and kind — someone who can take the lead when I feel unsure and help me find my way at a pace that feels natural. Maybe you’ve been down this road before and want to share your experience, or maybe you’re also curious and ready to take a leap. Either way, I’d love to see where this could take us.

I’m drawn to people who are confident, witty, and enjoy being the steady presence in the room. If you’re someone who appreciates genuine connection, has a sense of adventure, and doesn’t mind indulging my occasional bad jokes, we might be a perfect fit.

So, what do you say? Send me a message and tell me what song perfectly sums up your vibe right now. I’d love to hear it and see if our energies match.

Sometimes the best journeys begin with a simple step. Let’s take it together and see what unfolds.