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So, like many of you, I am here because something is missing in my marriage. Yes, it's sex but it is so much more than that. It's the connection, the intimacy, the feel of someone's warm skin, the passion, the flirting, the conversation, and so much more that disappears when the sex disappears. The love does not seem to but it's slowly pushed back by the resentment. It hurts when the one you promised til death do us part is the one making you feel this way.
I don't know what I want and I don't know what I am looking for. I'm not opposed to a one-nighter but I would prefer to get to know someone first. And if becomes nothing more, I am fine with that. I want to connect with someone and talk freely, be able to tell my secrets to, have inside jokes with, be a support structure for them and vise versa, seek advise from them and them from me, cheer each other on.
Going through something like this is lonely and I want to know I'm not alone. And neither are you. Hopefully I can find a new friend, a new confidante, maybe a new lover...you never know.
I think that's enough soap box talk for now.
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