Alright, so I know it's a random group of states, but I can explain...I live in Minnesota but I travel frequently to all parts of California. You can ask me where, but I promise, if you're by a moderately sized city, I make it to your way. I also set my own travel so we can make it work. Also, if you're from Idaho and in the southern part of the state from east to west you never know, I make it there often too. Or maybe you travel for work. I'm casting a wide net in specific places, hoping that the more I put myself out there, the better chance I have of finding what I'm looking for, which I think gets harder each time I come back.

I've found incredible people on here in the past. In that time, through all the ups and downs, I think I've found out what I am willing to give and what I'm looking for. What I'm looking for isn't a list of requirements. Can we please just start with at least being enthusiastic to talk? Just that. I really like at least getting to know someone, and I bet we have things in common. I will reciprocate if the energy is there, but I just want to start with as the baseline. Our cadences and schedules may not always match up, but we are always walking away from those times we do connect feeling fulfilled.

After that, who knows. I know that I don't really want whatever we have to be based in purely a sexual relationship. I want to be friends. I want to root for each other, even if that means success in our own marriages or whatever. Let's not be weird about what this all is in the end.

I'm 5'11" and I'm in ok shape. Hard to quantify because I've lost a lot of weight since the spring and it's still coming off. I'm a pretty good looking guy overall. You know...in a "cute neighbor" kind of way- not an "out in public double take." I've been married 20 years. I am more than willing to talk about all things in my life, but I'm not going to dwell on having a DB. I have one. It's not worst case scenario and it's not best. I don't like complaining. I can live without sex, but more so than sex, it's the companionship I miss. The rest is just an extension of that companionship.

Rambling. Let's talk. You know you want to stop looking.