Ladies, please let me know as I’m curious as to the general consensus is. Feel free to comment below or send me a chat request.

Personally, I’d love to find someone I’m madly in love with. I’d love to have find someone who would be the kind of woman I’d want to go legit with if I had to start over again. I have grown and changed so much since I was a stupid kid of 24 with baggage when I got married. There’s a lot about my wife that I love and appreciate. And yet, there are areas of my life she can no longer meet me and I need someone who will. I would love to be that someone for you as well. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not looking to break up anyone’s relationship/ marriage, but I want to feel that ache of longing to be together again. The limerence and excitement that will launch us into something long term. I’m also hella good at compartmentalizing, so if the rest sounds good, don’t let it scare you off.

I need someone intelligent to meet my sapiosexual needs, nonjudgmental, curious, and at least a little weird. Some sense of spirituality is valued, but not essential, as I’m trying to rediscover spirituality outside organized religion. I’m also trying to take better care of myself physically so anyone who can encourage me to work out more is appreciated. I’m new to the STL area, so anyone who wants to show me the sites would be appreciated as well.

What you get: intelligence, emotional maturity, thoughtful, non-judgmental, sexual restraint (e.g. I’m not going to demand nudes or send dick pics unrequested), tall, reasonably good looking (subjective of course), but objectively a goof ball versed in innuendo, puns, memes, pop culture references, and more. Not an official “Dom”, but I take pleasure in controlling a woman’s pleasure and building sexual tension until she can’t stand it anymore. Open to exploring more as we build a relationship and feel safe.

I’ll be traveling a fair bit for work, so I have the potential to make something work if you’re outside STL.