Winter has arrived in Michigan and I am one year older. My marriage is ok, but there's a huge hole missing and aching to be filled. Life is flying by and with every passing day opportunities to feel fulfilled withers away. Time is never recovered. It's time to feel the butterflies again...to smile at the notifications on our phones.

Married Blk M seeking married or attached female. Southwest Michigan. I'm a sapiosexual...look it up as most people think it's a BDSM kink..it's not. ;). I work in education and coaching. I love my career. With that being said, discretion is of the utmost importance.

I'm a nonsmoker and only drink lightly on special occassion...could that occasion be with you? I'm looking for more than just sex. More of an affair partner. Someone to chat with safely throughout the day and evening. Send me a DM and we can chat. Not looking to change anyone's home situation or mine. Age, race and body type are open as long as you have all your teeth. ;) Looking to connect on a mental level as well as physical.

About me: 6' and 210. Clean shaven head with a small goatee. I'm a romantic at heart. Love to laugh and have meaningful conversations about a myriad of topics. Most people would call me an introvert. I'm a great listener. My nickname in college was Jerd, which is a cross between a Jock and a Nerd. I embraced the nickname!! I'm able to communicate throughout the day.

About you: Married or attached. Funny, adventurous, confident, and a romantic. Able to eventually meet up. Seeking a spark and not looking to change your or my situation. Must be discreet.