Here’s the deal:

-Every so often (2-3 times a year, maybe more), we go for a vacation.

-We meet up somewhere and spoil each other rotten with affection, touch, desire and sheer ungodly naughtiness. Anything but the monotonous.

-We devour the location touristically or in the way which suits us, and, of course, also devour each other in the most mind blowing and unspeakable of ways, when it comes to that. Anything but the monotonous.

-I do not mind where you are based, as long as you can meet a couple of times a year - ideally in North America or Europe. The title includes some of the places I frequent but we don’t have to meet there.

-Please be honest with yourself about your ability to pull this off. Be able to travel. I travel for work multiple times a year, so this aligns with my normal schedule, so to speak.

-I don’t want a bog-standard affair. I want one which really respects our current situations (as much as possible), while recognising the need for something more; adrenaline, butterflies, you know the works. Something that is more of a slow burner due to the frequency of meet ups, but with real highlights and memories.

-We will meet a handful times a year, but we will make every minute worth it when we do. That I assure you.

Me:

-Mixed race (to the untrained eye I’m black). 35. Married. Lived on three continents. Well rounded and well travelled.

-I am based in the UK. The nature of my work takes me all over the world.

-Degree-educated, working in a professional career which is public-facing, so discretion is a must. I also own a business.

-Easygoing, tender, sensual, and thoughtful. Love to explore my surroundings and sexuality. Low maintenance. Voracious reader. Fitness conscious, but not obsessed. Kink friendly. Water-tight OPSEC.

-I am the type of person no one would imagine I’m on here.

You:

-Married. 30-45. Drama-free, kind, curious, thoughtful and open minded. Practices OPSEC, obviously.

-I’m open to all races and body types, and while I need some physical attraction the chemistry between us eclipses everything else.

-Rather than making this an exhaustive list of what I’m looking for, I would rather engage with someone because chemistry isn’t a box ticking exercise. We can connect with people we least expect to connect with. Let’s see what kind of combustion we can get. Bring the fire extinguisher, just in case.

-I am not looking for a pen pal I’ll never meet. We will primarily communicate through Telegram at a frequency which suits us both.

If this interests you at all, do message me to tell me a little about yourself and a trip you’d like to take someday and why. Let’s talk, connect and see where it leads. Cheers!